Make and Keep New Year’s Resolutions

 


Well again, it’s that time of the year. The time when we think about our last year and seek (to) a more desirable time ahead. So this sounds like the perfect time for advancement. Are you thinking to make a resolution for the coming year? But feel tedious, No? Yes. People fail to meet their New Year's Resolutions due to a variety of reasons. The most common reason is a lack of motivation or trying to work on too many resolutions at once. Setting vague goals also automatically makes people lose momentum. When people fail to work at their resolution once, they often lose motivation completely and end up being frustrated and disappointed. They then give up until next year.

But personal progress is vital. Why not make this year a bit different from the rest? You just simply need to choose the right resolution for yourself, plan accordingly, and execute them in steps. Here’s how –

New Year resolutions have to be attainable and meaningful. A resolution may fail if it is based on someone else’s opinion of you, vague, and unrealistic. Your goals should be S.M.A.R.T. And to make your goal SMART, you need to fulfill the criteria of SMART – Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Timely. Setting SMART goals will give your goals a structure and will be manageable. It will make your objective clear goals and the estimate of the goal’s realistic.

·        Specific – stands for well-defined and clear goals. A goal is specific when it has an eye for detail. When writing the goal try answering the 5 W’s :

1.     What do I want to accomplish?

2.     Why is this goal important?

3.     Who is involved?

4.     Where is it located?

5.     Which resources or limits are involved?

·        Measurable – is something that can be measured. It can be quantitative or qualitative. The individual needs to understand what success looks like for the objective that is to be attained. This is the reason that a goal should be measurable. To measure the goal try answering yourself:

1.     How many/much?

2.     How to determine if I have reached my goal?

3.     How to indicate progress?

·        Achievable – A goal must be realistic and attainable to be reached. In other words, it should widen your skills but be possible. For achievable goals try answering yourself:

1.     How can I accomplish this goal?

2.     How realistic is the goal, based on other constraints, like financial factors?

·        Relevant – Your goals should be meaningful and align with other goals. They should be relevant to you. You can also break them into small, equal tasks to keep you focused. Be careful about removing irrelevant goals and subgoals to save important time. For relevant goals try answering yourself:

1.     Do my goals align with other goals (team, department, organizational targets, etc)?

2.     Is the task useful/sensible?

·        Time-Bound – The goal surely has a deadline to complete it i.e Time-Bound. If you have a deadline you focus on goals to work towards. For time-bound goals try answering yourself:

1.     When?

2.     What can I do six months from now?

3.     What can I do six weeks from now?

4.     What can I do today?

There are ways by which you can make your resolutions stick. Let’s check out the tips to rise over the obstacles. Let’s go:

Take one step at a time – Start small and change one behaviour at a time. For example, if you’re trying to clean up your diet, you may want to start first by the addition of five servings of fresh fruit or vegetables every day. Then, start getting rid of harmful foods from your intake one at a time. Perhaps you start with eliminating soda and then work your way to getting rid of most processed foods in a few months.

Find your reason We are motivated by something different. While one individual may want to quit smoking to set an example for his children, the next may want to do that because his father died of lung cancer. Whatever your motivation is, figure it out and stick with it. Do not think about the negatives of your resolution, but make an effort to focus on the positives. So, instead of thinking you’re depriving yourself of a plate of rasgollas or jalebis, remind yourself how energized you feel when you don’t overeat.

Set deadlines – One way to complete your resolution is to mark a timeline to it.

Set Rewards and penalties – Many a time, the common reason for not sticking to the resolutions is lack of motivation. For a boost of motivation, consider the rewards and penalty system when you ignore your resolutions.

Always remember that good New Year's resolution ideas are those that truly speak to you and inspire you to be a superior person. If you take the time to work out what your resolution involves and make a meticulous plan, you can be wildly successful with your resolutions.

Have a wonderful New Year! 

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